Everyone has heard others express some inspiring advice and then trail off into ‘At the end of the day..’
But do you really consider the context of the word flow? Or do you just bypass the saying just like any other one that was being said?
For any issues that you may come across during your day, just remember that at the end of the day its about you and how you see yourself. Its about what you believe in, what your morals are and what you value in life. Its about the decisions you make and how they may or may not affect other people. It’s about doing what you wish because you hope that its the best judgment to make.
Regardless of the decisions you make in life, its extremely important that your surroundings do not change their opinions about you, at the end of the day. Respect should be upheld no matter what choices you make. Your family, friends, and loved ones will still be there for you and support you, and if they have any input about your thoughts then so be it. Consulting with others before you change something in your life could quite possibly be the smartest thing you could do because then you gain a little more feedback and really dig down deep into your feelings to figure out if your adjustment is the perfect fit.
Depending on the type of person you are, you should always remember that its about you. With whatever chances you take, it should only matter to you and make a difference to you, so if no one else agrees with that, then you need to learn to let them go. One of the things I’ve learned with friends at least, is that if they can’t accept your actions in anything that you do, then why bother with them? Friends come and go, but family will always stick around. No matter what you choices are during the day, everything comes down to you hours later. When you’re by yourself reflecting on past scenes, its up to you change yourself, other situations, and change the way you perceive people and places. If anyone else has a concern about your new behavior or ways of life then its clearly not something worth wasting your time with. This is the time to take risks, enjoy what you have and to appreciate the little things. No stressing allowed.
If you find yourself a different kind of person, say, the kind that works for other people, thrives of others’ energy, love to see people happy, then do what you love. Lets be honest, if that’s how you live your life and you’re okay with it, then continue on. But, if you’re not happy with pleasing people all of the time because in the end it bites you in the butt, then quit it. Nobody deserves disrespect and depreciation when that’s all you know how to give in the first place. Advance backward to see and realize that your good steps towards others aren’t worth what they used to. This is when you work for yourself. An alternative move, I know.
The moral of the story is, is that you should remember yourself when it comes down to it. Thoughts make you crazy and you may be unaware of where to place them. So talk to your friends, figure things out and research everything that you’re unsure of. Wait it out, let the ideas settle in, and set a date to make a final decision. By then your senses will have gathered to come to consensus and from there your actions will be determined.
At the end of the day, everything will be okay.
