I’m so distraught over how well two people can fit together, as well as the simplest of puzzle pieces, and yet, they may have difficulty overcoming an incredibly ridiculous argument that has escalated to no end. The moment is so awful because you feel excessively distant from the other person. You feel like strangers. But it’s hard to run away from the issue at hand because you must prove a point and you must get your way. God forbid if one changes for the other, like that would happen.. So what should come about before the two strangers can resort back to normalcy? A possible compromise? A sacrifice? But neither of them truly know because they’re still heated, caught up in the moment of negativity.
I just find it so fascinating, almost shocking, at how opposite the human mind and body can react in certain circumstances. Emotions are a wonderful, but overwhelming process to experience. There are different stages that link with certain events; death, a break up, or fame. Ready for my psychology lesson of the day? Our mind brings us thought times of mourning, excitement, depression, confusion, and on and on. {You can thank Maslow for that.} But to go from an argument, then back to being lovey-dovey with someone, is something I don’t think anyone can really grasp the concept of. These times help us and hurt us. They can also affect our surroundings/surrounding loved ones. I know it may be rough to back out of a discussion in which you know you’re correct in, but that may also be the sole solution to your war. Internal and out. Unless you feel the need to risk it all, reconstruct your thoughts and then proceed to act.
Life really doesn’t prepare you for much, if you really think about it. Rejection, heartbreak, disappointment, success, failure.. Which are all quiet the range of emotions to encounter. But along the way there is assistance, your family and friends that lead the way for you. Places set the mood. Your mind goes wild. You’re guided through this journey by individuals with experience(s), then you take on those experiences once you’re finished.
“The condition that distinguishes organisms from inorganic objects and dead organisms, being manifested by growth through metabolism, reproduction, and the power of adaptation to environment through changes originating internally”… in other words, the meaning of life. But the terms I mentioned before are clearly nonexistent in the definition. Just because something means something else, doesn’t mean that it’s real from rumor or even fact from fiction..
Drift away from the stress and indulge in some Beatles; Let It Be
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“Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans.” ~John Lennon